A friend recently asked, “Do you ever have doubts about the whole transgender thing?”
My friend has a habit of referring to anything she hasn’t wrapped her mind around as a “thing,” which has the unfortunate...
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Posted on April 15, 2011
This column is about anal sex. So if you don’t like reading about such things, stop reading now.
Many years ago I lived next door to a young born-again-Christian rock singer. (He probably would dislike reading...
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Posted on April 8, 2011
I’ve been in Mexico for the last few weeks. I’ve met people from all over North America, who occasionally ask me where I’m from. In the past, such conversations have often gone like this:
Me: “I’m...
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Posted on March 25, 2011
Why does “love the sinner; hate the sin” ring so hollow in the gay-rights debate?
One reason, as I’ve argued before [1], is that part of loving the “sinner” is making an effort to understand him—something...
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Posted on March 18, 2011
Recently I received the following inquiry via my website [1]:
“As a single older closeted gay man. I don't understand how we can ask for marriage rights when so many gay couples don’t even understand...
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Posted on March 11, 2011
Let me begin with a huge Thank You to readers who weighed in thoughtfully on last week’s column [1], which pondered the changing attitudes of audiences at my “Gay Moralist” lectures.
Although I have a general...
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Posted on March 4, 2011
It is a strange, challenging, and encouraging time for me as the Gay Moralist.
For almost nineteen years I have been giving my talk “What’s Morally Wrong with Homosexuality?” at universities around the country.
I sometimes quip...
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Posted on February 25, 2011
I am about to commit an act of gay heresy.
It wouldn’t be my first time. But it is the first time I will be challenging, not just an Article of Faith, but also a High...
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Posted on February 18, 2011
When I floated the idea of writing a Valentine’s Day column, my friends’ reactions ran the gamut—from suggestions for themes (“Talk about what makes a successful relationship!”) to wariness (“Are you sure you want to...
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Posted on February 11, 2011
You may not know his name. You should.
Frank Kameny has sometimes been called the “Rosa Parks” of the gay movement. Like most analogies, this one is imperfect. Parks’ civil disobedience was backed by an organized...
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Posted on February 4, 2011