First published at 365gay.com on January 22, 2010 Not long ago a friend approached me for relationship advice. He’s a white guy who was contemplating dating a black guy, and, as he put it, “I thought you could give me some insight since you’re in an interracial relationship.” His query took me by surprise. To… Continue reading No Asians?
Author: johncorvino
Don’t Let the Perverted Analogy Trip Up the Gay Debate
First published at 365gay.com on January 18, 2010 The Gay Moralist is a philosophy professor by day, and today’s column is a logic lesson. Consider the following two exchanges: Jack: I can’t support gay marriage because it violates my religion. Jill: Some people’s religions teach that interracial marriage is wrong. Jack: So, you’re saying that… Continue reading Don’t Let the Perverted Analogy Trip Up the Gay Debate
Fighting Gay Dehumanization
First published at 365gay.com on January 8, 2010 The column that follows is about anal sex. Some friends have urged me against writing it, not because readers find frank discussions of anal sex “icky,” but because the offending comments’ source—Peter LaBarbera—is unworthy of serious attention. In one sense these friends are quite right. But for… Continue reading Fighting Gay Dehumanization
What’s Morally Wrong with Homosexuality? Hour-Long Lecture
Is homosexuality unnatural? Does it threaten society? Are gays and lesbians “born that way”–and does it matter either way? In this hour-long program, Dr. John Corvino tackles these questions and more. This is the 2007 recording of “What’s Morally Wrong with Homosexuality?” which John first developed in 1992 and has since delivered before hundreds of… Continue reading What’s Morally Wrong with Homosexuality? Hour-Long Lecture
A Story of Comfort and Joy
First published at 365gay.com on December 18, 2009 Allow me to share a favorite holiday story. It was late-November 1989, a year after I first came out. I had been dating a guy named Michael for over a month, which made him (in my mind, at least) my first “real” boyfriend. I was twenty and… Continue reading A Story of Comfort and Joy
Kudos to Bruce; Shame on Mitch
First published at Between the Lines News on December 17, 2009 Today I heard two bits of news that reminded me of how far we’ve come and how far we have yet to go. First, Bruce Springsteen has come out in favor of marriage equality in New Jersey. Yes, THAT Bruce Springsteen, or as many… Continue reading Kudos to Bruce; Shame on Mitch
What Bigotry Is
First published at 365gay.com on December 4, 2009 “We all know what bigotry is,” a friend said to me recently. But do we? I mean, most of us have experienced it, and we can point to clear historical examples. But can we define it, articulating what those examples all have in common? Or is it… Continue reading What Bigotry Is
The Slippery Slope of Religious Exemptions
First published at 365gay.com on November 22, 2009 This morning, I didn’t feel like getting out of bed. I wasn’t sick; just tired. But I had a full workday scheduled. Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared unto me and said, “Behold, today is a sacred day, and you must not work.” Sweet! Okay, maybe… Continue reading The Slippery Slope of Religious Exemptions
Taking a Break Until Next Year
First published at 365gay.com on November 19, 2010 This column will be my last for a while. I’m taking a break—maybe for a month, maybe longer—to recharge my batteries and focus on some other projects. So I wanted to take an opportunity to say “thank you” to my regular readers and to let you know… Continue reading Taking a Break Until Next Year
On Not Being Like Other Boys
First published at 365gay.com on November 13, 2009 It’s November, which means bookstores have next year’s calendars on display. When I was a teenager, this annual occurrence unnerved me. The “male interest” calendars”—think “Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Model of the Month”—held no appeal for me. Instead, I would nervously reach for a Chippendales calendar, hiding it… Continue reading On Not Being Like Other Boys